asexuality: the world’s most simple-to-grasp concept that apparently nobody can understand

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1. Your skin may never be perfect, and that’s okay.

2. Life is too short not to have the underwear, the coffee, and the haircut you want.

3. Everyone (including your family, your coworkers, and your best friend) will talk about you behind your back, and you’ll talk about them too. It doesn’t mean you don’t love each other.

4. It’s okay to spend money on things that make you happy.

5. Sometimes without fault or reason, relationships deteriorate. It will happen when you’re six, it will happen when you’re sixty. That’s life.

Five things I am trying very hard to accept (via aumoe)

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so i was studying for my english exam and i found this in my notes… i don’t see how that’s a hyperbole?

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Click here to support Help w Paige's Medical Bills/Living Exp. by Paige Hanson



I am disabled and unable to work due to my progressively failing health.  I have a growing list of diagnoses that include Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, Celiac disease, benign paroxysmal positional vertigo, Raynaud’s phenomena, chronic pain syndrome, and Bipolar disorder.  I now use a wheelchair, and despite having a Master’s in English and experience as a professor, cannot work due to extreme fatigue, memory loss, chronic pain, and other symptoms.  Working with my doctors to find a diagnosis has been prohibitively expensive.  I have seen many specialists, have had MRIs, EMGs, EEGs, and other costly tests with more ordered. (For instance, I badly need an MRI of my lumbar spine because my reflexes are abnormal, but the copay is $200.) I have about $9,000 in medical debt, not counting my $70,000 student loan debt.  I have had to go without tests or medications because I cannot afford them.  Without being able to afford diagnostic testing and doctor’s visits, I cannot get additional testing done, which is critical for my health and to apply for disability.  At this point, we cannot afford a wheelchair ramp, anything to make the house more accessible, other accommodations for my disability - like an a new mattress, as my current one is broken with springs poking out dangerously and other springs completely collapsed, making sleeping an even more painful ordeal, and dangerous.

My mother, who is my caregiver, is currently chronically underemployed.  She herself has fibromyalgia and arthritis and struggles to work.  She is working whatever temporary shifts she can find as a nurse, but we are now struggling to pay for groceries, rent, and the car payment.  We have made rent lately by selling all our gold and silver jewellery, asking for donations, and selling off possessions.  Medical expenses naturally take away from these necessities even more, and vice versa.  I have a small Etsy shop - - and pick up small odd-jobs, but as I’m usually stuck at home, on the couch, I can’t help much.

I have set our donation goal in the hope that we will have a safety net for a few months - so that we will not have to worry about eviction, or car repossession, and that I will be able to pay for my medications, doctors visits, and tests.  Being homeless while disabled is a terrifying prospect.  I feel immense guilt that I have become so disabled, and have lost the ability to work and help provide for the household, and that I am now entirely dependent on my mother.  I want to help ease her mind, and get us both the help we need to make it through until she finds a job, and I am well enough to work.  Please help us stay housed and healthy.

I also have a PayPal account that you can use to donate if you cannot or would not like to use a credit/debit card: the email address to us is

Things are pretty serious and scary right now.  Mum’s temp job ended abruptly because the facility she was sent out to was bought out.  We are now without income, and have an important car payment coming up.  If we miss it, the payment is three months late and the car will be repossessed.  This is Detroit - we have no reliable public transport, so this is serious business.  We are also running short on money for groceries and other basic necessities.  I am desperately trying to sell whatever I can with limited luck.  We’ve received a few donations (thank you) but not enough to get us through the month and save the care.  Please, please, if you can donate even a dollar, if you can buy something from my store, help.  And PLEASE reblog, reblog to save us.

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Your friends are allowed to have friends who are not you. They are even allowed to be better friends with them than they are you.

Your friends are not your possessions, you don’t get to dictate who they can and can’t talk to.

If you think you can, you might just be a problem.

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panic/anxiety attack





  • breath in for 4 seconds
  • hold your breath for 7 seconds
  • exhale breath for 8 seconds

repeat once or twice more.

This causes an autonomic nervous system shift from a sympathetic (fight or flight reaction) state to a parasympathetic response.

Use this for panic/anxiety attacks, exams, presentations.

Never not reblog

Tumblr got anxiety advice. Fuck yeah.

Read this earlier, and it helped me a lot tonight.

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what if remus was so stoned he was talking to a big black dog and then james comes up and is like “remus u kno that sirius is in detention right now right” and remus is all “i just like dogs”

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i feel bad for 5’11 boys like u were so close. u almost made it.

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